Written by: Chris Tyler
Part of being good at flirting with a woman is being good at listening to what she has to say. The more you listen to her, the more you will be able to find out what makes her laugh, what makes her smile, and most importantly… what makes her feel sexually attracted to a man. Women are right. Men are not very good at listening and although women usually say that in the context of complaining about their man, what men should pick up on is that they are telling you one of the most crucial pieces to the puzzle of flirting with a woman.
There is something else, though about listening to a woman that you should pay attention to. And that is this. When seeking advice on what women respond to, it’s good to get some input from other women. There is this idea that women don’t give out good advice and I really don’t find that to be true at all. Most women do have a hard time telling you what works on them, that is true. What they are usually good at though, is telling you what works on OTHER women. So, if you have some female friends that you can get some input from, go ahead and get it.
Why should you listen to what a woman says about flirting with other women?
When talking about themselves, most women will be pretty protective so they are not going to spill the beans on what they get turned on by. That’s just the way she goes. On the other hand, when they are talking about what works on a woman they don’t even know, they usually don’t have that urge to be protective. So, what you wind up getting is some pretty good insight that comes straight from woman.
Ask her questions and analyze her answers…
Another good way to get better at flirting with a woman is to ask a female friend that you have questions about a guy she has dated and why she was attracted to him. Now, she will probably not tell you everything, but she probably will reveal some clues. And that is where you need to analyze what she says. Just because you don’t hear her say straight out that this is what worked on her, it does not mean that she is not telling you what really did work. Most of the time, she will say it in such a way that you kind of have to see around what she is saying to see the real truth.
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