How to Flirt With a Woman – Listen To What Women Say

Written by:  Chris Tyler

Part of being good at flirting with a woman is being good at listening to what she has to say. The more you listen to her, the more you will be able to find out what makes her laugh, what makes her smile, and most importantly… what makes her feel sexually attracted to a man. Women are right. Men are not very good at listening and although women usually say that in the context of complaining about their man, what men should pick up on is that they are telling you one of the most crucial pieces to the puzzle of flirting with a woman.

There is something else, though about listening to a woman that you should pay attention to. And that is this. When seeking advice on what women respond to, it’s good to get some input from other women. There is this idea that women don’t give out good advice and I really don’t find that to be true at all. Most women do have a hard time telling you what works on them, that is true. What they are usually good at though, is telling you what works on OTHER women. So, if you have some female friends that you can get some input from, go ahead and get it.

Why should you listen to what a woman says about flirting with other women?

When talking about themselves, most women will be pretty protective so they are not going to spill the beans on what they get turned on by. That’s just the way she goes. On the other hand, when they are talking about what works on a woman they don’t even know, they usually don’t have that urge to be protective. So, what you wind up getting is some pretty good insight that comes straight from woman.

Ask her questions and analyze her answers…

Another good way to get better at flirting with a woman is to ask a female friend that you have questions about a guy she has dated and why she was attracted to him. Now, she will probably not tell you everything, but she probably will reveal some clues. And that is where you need to analyze what she says. Just because you don’t hear her say straight out that this is what worked on her, it does not mean that she is not telling you what really did work. Most of the time, she will say it in such a way that you kind of have to see around what she is saying to see the real truth.

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How To Approach A Woman?

Written by: Terry Leslie

The old saying, “The Knight In Shining Armor” still exists today like it did in the medieval times. Only difference is that we’re no longer on a horse and wearing our metal. These days it’s more of a male chivalry which we all men should show if we want to attract our woman. Women are always looking for their knight in shining armor all the time. It is in them to want to be rescued. So whenever there is a chance to help a woman in need, never hesitate. Just do it!

We may not be attracted to the woman we help, but you never know if there is another woman around the corner watching your good deeds. What is important is that this has to be real, a habit you gradually develop over time. You really should not do it just to attract a woman. The more you give, the more you get back. Just don’t expect it right away or else you’ll be disappointed.

So in future when ever you see a woman who either, needs help or rescue from a situation, go for it. Rescuing a woman is one of the surest ways to win their heart. Whether it’s from another man or an embarrassing situation, find a way to save the day and very likely you’ve immediately also found a way to her heart.

Woman unconsciously also like to see that you have good relationships with other women around your age because it shows that you are also liked by other women. She’ll find this attractive.

Never approach a woman too directly and stare down at her as she’ll begin to find you too intimidating or even creepy. An indirect approach is best. Try to also stay away from the usual pick-up lines such as the weather, buying her a drink etc.

You are much better off relating to her on some level. Try to find a common interest.

Its best to therefore approach women as a friend or casual acquaintance as this gives you the best chance to get to know her a little bit more and quickly find a common ground of interest. This can then be further developed into a full blown conversation. It also puts pressure off you trying to score on first attempt with expectations of a long lasting romance or a one night stand and then feeling stupid if you didn’t succeed.

Take your time, and continue practicing. This is the only way you’ll gain confidence over time. The more you do it, the more you’ll feel comfortable picking up women.

In the mean time, Good Luck!

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How A Man’s Kiss Affects A Woman

Written by: Rudy Casanova

Your first kiss will determine if you get an invitation or a handshake.

When it comes to kissing, you have to approach it with the right attitude. It is an experience to be enjoyed in and of itself, not just a stepping-stone to sex. Yes, of course we want it to lead to the bedroom and if done correctly, it probably will, but you need to experience and really enjoy the act of kissing. A woman will feel your kiss with great sensitivity and she will know if it is sincere or not. And if you really kiss with purpose, you’ll enjoy it and thereby also be good at it.

Kissing not only involves the lips, but the whole body and mind, and, if you do it right, the soul. First know how to enjoy kissing before you can expect a woman to enjoy kissing you. Kissing is a process, not an act.

The way to enjoy kissing is to be sensitive to the closeness and touching of lips and tongues. Focus on your lips and hers. Enjoy the sensation. Let your mind wander with what you are feeling. Women are touchy-feely and it’s all about emotions and heady stuff like that and most of us guys don’t really understand and really don’t want to, but we have to deal with it. And, again, if you go with the flow and catch the feeling, so to speak, you might find yourself on a new plane of pleasure. Kissing is a wonderful experience if you let it be. I’m reminded of a time when a kiss created the setting for a night of bliss that illustrates one of those wonderful kissing experiences.

I was visiting my parents at my boyhood home in Italy on the Mediterranean coast some years ago, the time not being of importance. After hooking up with old time friends and hitting the social scene, it was not long before my eyes met those of a fair young lady. We hit it right off after a brief introductory chat and from there the night flowed like wine at an Italian wedding.

As the night turned into the wee hours of the morning, we strolled as lovers would in an old time movie through the city square. As she twirled in front of me, arms outstretched and hair flowing so beautifully, I gently stepped closer. Seeing the impassioned look on my face, she slowly glided around and leaned into my arms. I pulled her close to me, looked into her eyes, and whispered a sweet compliment. She smiled and I kissed her. The kind of kiss that brought out all her passions and erased her inhibitions. It was a night that she will always remember as I do. I remember all my moments with women, even though there have been hundreds of them.

The beginning to a great night with a beautiful woman can end with a handshake if she does not like the way you kiss. If you want her to spread her legs, you first have to know how to spread her lips.

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Rudy Casanova has been called “Best Kisser On The Planet” by many a lucky woman. Having been raised in wealth and privilege, he has spent his life in the pursuit of loving women. Besides having the reputation as a womanizer, Rudy is known among women’s circles as the best lover in the world. He writes about his adventures with women and provides advice on how to deal with them at http://www.NightsInLingerie.com He writes new articles and answers readers’ questions weekly. The website also offers stories and advice about love and relationships and lingerie.

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He Might Be The One

Written by: Vivian Johnson

No one knows that for sure, but you. If you are not “soliciting” opinions, then don’t use them to analyze your relationship.

Too much outside advice can do more damage than good. A lot of issues you will have to sort out internally. From there, only discuss your concerns with people you know you can trust. The ones that only want the best for you.

Your jealous, lonely, catty friends are not the friends you want to discuss your relationship with. They will usually offer advice that is totally useless. Just because they don’t seem to like who you are communicating with, doesn’t mean there is anything wrong.

He might be the one if he is willing to tolerate your jealous, lonely, tag-along, catty friends and not complain.

He might be the one that goes shopping with you on the weekend, even though he hates to shop. As a matter of fact, he does all of his shopping online.

He might be the one, if he takes your 4 cats to get spayed and neutered on his day off.

It’s little things like these you family and friends may not know about, or they may choose to ignore.

It’s the things he does that makes you feel needed, special and cared for. It’s the little emails that arrive at the time you need them most…the way his voice can caress your heart…

When you are alone, evaluate your relationship in your mind. Weigh the good…then the bad…compare the two. Then you tell me whether or not he might be the one…

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Girl, He Is Not The One For You!!

Written by: Vivian Johnson

Now why would someone have to tell us that? We knew a long time ago, that he wasn’t the one for us, but decided to deal with it. Hoping that he will either: 1. change, 2. someone better would come along or 3. some misguided person would come along and take them from us! All of those reasons are poor…

As soon as you are sure he is not the one for you, it is time to call it quits! Even though we are usually too embarrassed to admit we knew it a long time ago!

You knew he wasn’t the one when…
He wrecked your car and left the scene of the accident because he didn’t have a drivers license. Not even a permit!

You knew he wasn’t the one when….
He tried to borrow money from your Ex!

You knew he wasn’t the one when…
You found out he couldn’t be on unemployment, because he was never, ever employed!

You knew he wasn’t the one when…
He threatened your children behind your back, and then lied about it.

You see, you’ve had signs all along, but you refused to acknowledge them. Staying with someone that “isn’t” the one isn’t fair to either of you. You need to move on…and he needs to get help.

A lot of singles hang on to who they currently have, while looking for someone else. That will usually backfire.

Make a clean break, and honestly start over with a totally clean slate. That is the only fair thing to do.

So, when someone you trusts tells you ‘Girl He Is Not The One For You!”, don’t get so defensive! Take a step back and evaluate the situation…then be totally honest with yourself! If you can honestly admit that he really isn’t the one? Cut your losses…and move on! You have millions of choices…there are no excuses!

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Female Attraction Secrets:

“The First & Most Basic Step To Becoming Successful With Women”

Written by: Simon Heong

The first step to becoming successful with women is this:

Learn to have basic conversational skills.

You MUST be able to talk to anyone at anytime — anywhere.

As simple as it may sound, this should be the first step you MUST simply master.

And WHY must you do this?

Well, think about it — if you’re able to literally talk to anyone AS and WHEN you like, don’t you think you’ll subconsciously be improving your social conversational skills with people in general?

The idea for you to do so is so that you become more COMFORTABLE talking to people.

That’s it.

Forget whether it’s with a guy or a girl for the moment.

Just make ‘talking to people’ second nature for you.

If you’re shy with the girls, then a good place to start is with the guys – especially the guys who are already great with the ladies.

Use them as practice.

Seriously.

Think about it, common sense tells you if you can’t even feel comfortable talking to guys, what makes you think you’ll be better off with the girls?

You can learn A LOT from these so-called ‘players’ as well.

Remember, the fastest way for you to become great with women is to MODEL after those who are ALREADY achieving the success that you want with women at the moment.

I have explained this technique in great detail inside my book at: http://www.InstantDatingSuccess.com/

You see, once you’re comfortable talking with the guys, then you can start moving forward and try talking to girls instead.

Remember: make GRADUAL improvements — on a daily basis.

Think about it: If you can gradually improve your conversational skills by a mere 1% each day CONSISTENTLY, by the very end of the month, your conversational skills would have improved by a whopping 30%!

NEVER underestimate the power of gradual improvement!

The next key step here is for you to go out and TAKE ACTION.

Can you imagine how much more fun your life would be if you’ll be able to just walk up and talk to any girl that you like?

With this skill in hand, you’ll be able to mess around with any girl you choose, anywhere you like!

It could be just be the sales girl from your local shopping mall, to the waitress who serves you coffee, to even the girl sitting next to you in the bus stop!

Here’s something you should also know when it comes to talking to women.

Most guys tend to try TOO HARD when they’re talking to a woman — a beautiful one especially.

They’ll tend to be way too accommodating, friendly & ‘complimentary’ to the her which is exactly the OPPOSITE way that most ‘alpha males’ should be doing.

This is also EXACTLY the way that 90% of guys would be when they’re talking to a woman which is wrong, wrong, WRONG!

What you SHOULD be doing in fact, is to NOT project the vibe that you’re trying TOO HARD to gain their attention.

Remember: Be DIFFERENT.

For examples on how to be indifferent, it’s all discussed in great detail in my “28 SureFire Ways To Instant Dating

Success!” book at http://www.InstantDatingSuccess.com/ as well.

You see, most guys, especially the shy ones, they tend to be too afraid in trying something funny or something cool especially if its with a beautiful woman.

My question for you is this?

What’s the worst that could happen to you if you did?

But before we go into that, let me tell you this, and this really is a FACT. More often than not, the worst things that you would normally think off, will most likely NOT happen at all!

It’s just your mind playing silly ‘ol tricks on ya, that’s it.

Now, worst case scenario is even if you DID fall flat on your face trying, at least you did something DIFFERENT, unlike the 99 other losers that said the same lame, over-accommodating lines that she’s so accustomed to all along.

You see, if you really want to be great with women, you must be a super ‘ALPHA’ bloke — a guy who’s NOT afraid to speak his mind AND do the right thing in any given situation and be the leader of the pack.

Not be all wimpy and accommodating and stuff…

Get it?

Think about it — then go out and DO it.

You’ll SEE the difference right away.

And you can thank me later, ok? ;-)

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Emotion, Love and Co-Dependency

Written by: Rion Williams

How is it that so many people will do all kinds of things based on their emotions?

How is it that people will do stupid, illogical, or miraculous things? Because of emotion.

Emotion influences behavior more than anything else. As in ‘The Secret’, you can have the logic but it’s often not enough to spur things on.

“You have to FEEL it.” Emotion truly is a blessing and so many adults including myself have forgot the amazing power of it.

If we could harness emotion and use it to our advantage with some form of control of it’s contextual use, we can accomplish a lot more.

Emotion in it’s purest form is overwhelming and inspirational.

There are different forms of emotion. Jealousy, lust, love, romance, envy, hate, rage, joy, happiness, pride, sorrow, pain, bittersweet loss, etc.

what’s interesting to me is that emotion is close to natural alpha character. And most happy emotions are evident in women who are not as socially conditioned.

The further someone ‘develops’ logically or socially, the further they will generally get away from their natural character and ability to feel emotion.

People will say that men aren’t emotional. No, we actually are.

But we do show emotion in different ways, but otherwise we often go through the exact same emotions as women.

So how do you create more emotion or experience it? I’d say not to get involved in co-dependencies or open yourself up to being ‘used’, but rather get in touch with your natural character.

Experience the natural character of the opposite sex.

Can you create emotion? Yes, or rather more accurately, you can harness it. Producer’s do it all the time, usually to add value. Marketer’s have gotten really good at it, usually to influence behavior of a buying decision.

Why not take control over the use of it and start bringing the truth of it back into your life? That’s what I’m doing now.

I haven’t felt lonely in probably 15 years because I built up walls to protect myself from other systems and people (especially in the Army where I had to).

Now, I’m finally opening up again to feel things. I wondered how anyone could ‘be happy’. Thinking positive just didn’t do it for me. I couldn’t fathom how people could whistle and sing because it was sunny out. Now I’m starting to realize why.

It’s because of emotion. It’s because of their connection to nature and their natural (biological) character.

Other than negative emotions and their behavioral byproducts, there is a bad side of emotion. When emotion is used or exploited in the wrong types of relationships.

Emotion is also closer correlated to co-dependency than independence.

This is why millions of men and women will continue to stay in relationships that are otherwise completely unbeneficial to them.

One of my friends is stuck on an X-girlfriend for the emotional ‘kick’ he gets out of it despite her erratic behavior. Yet it’s still an emotional co-dependency of all kinds of unhealthy drama.

However, there are a few people who can experience it all. Think of Tony Robbins and you might get an idea. And don’t think you have to be a millionaire to be ‘happy’.

Actually, it’s often the poorest people in the world that are really the happiest. Emotion is value. Go to a village in South Africa and you’re entire reality could shift. You’ve been valuing the wrong things your whole life when perhaps you looked down upon ‘poor’ people.

They have the most natural character as well as the purest emotion.

Men who have independence and only operate interdependently with other people can now have all the benefits of emotion WHILE maintaining relational authority and control without co-dependencies.

This is a tremendous amount of power yet with control as well.

We have enough logic not to do something stupid yet we can bask in the pure natural flow of emotion itself.

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Rion Williams is one of the foremost experts in dating advice, personal power, body language and social dynamics.
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Dating Tips

Written by: Mary Rose

The activity you choose when you meet someone for the first time should be something you are comfortable doing. It also needs to allow conversation for you to determine if you will get together for a second date. A few top choices of dating tips are discussed here.

You can have fun and be safe at the same time while dating. The first and foremost of the dating tips is to dress modestly. Your thought, speech, action, and appearance should set a good example. It is always safe to avoid dark places, parked cars or empty homes, and all other environments that might invite to trouble. Discuss the dating activities with your parents. Stay away from activities that will be a cause of embarrassment in future. Keep yourself physically and morally virtuous and worthy to enter the holy place without guilt. It is better to go on group or double dates.

The first date is a nightmare in every person’s life. They bring together the pressure of job interviews with the superficiality of plastic flowers. You’re keen to make a good impression and at the same time skeptical about each move of your date. The level of expectation is high and the hopes and fears the guys undergo , it’s no surprise that relationships break at the drop a hat these days.

One of the important dating tips is to be you. Do not pretend to be someone you’re not. The truth will always out eventually: Sooner is truly better than later. But it is equally important to put in your best foot forward. There is no need to be weighed down about your vulnerabilities and insecurities, or to share your past. Rather narrate the anecdotes that bring out your sweet and sparkling personality.

Remember this is a twofold strategy. Every guy likes to shine in the eyes of his date by rushing in his tried and true tales. Try to be a good listener. It will give you an idea as to what his interests are. If he talks about how his ex girlfriends ditched him, imagine their side of the story. If he is wary of marriage or commitment, that’s valuable information to have early on as well. Do not talk him out on his likes and dislikes. It is a good piece of information to know if he is really serious about this relationship.

Never act as if this date is a life and death situation. Try to have fun. Your life does not hang in the balance. It’s just a date. All you’re really doing is hanging out for a few hours with a new acquaintance. Lighten up the situation and the rest will be easy to handle. Do not make an impulsive decision about your feelings toward him. Unless he’s a bore or nut, give the relationship a second try before dumping him off. Never rush into any conclusion for which you will have to regret the rest of your life. The guy could be someone who might have been the love of your life.

Don’t leave anything to assumption. If you’d like to date the person again, say it in a way the other person understands. But never act desperate to arrange a second date at the very place. Nevertheless don’t dilute the message of the date either. The most important of the dating tips of all is to date safe. Never take risks with your safety. Even if you the person who introduced you to this guy is very well known to you, you are not bound to invite a near stranger in for some entertainment. Moreover, not rushing into intimacy gives you something to look forward to on future dates.

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Can Friendship Turn To Romance?

Written by: Jason Rase

It is important to be really systematic for turning friendship into romance. Friendship and romance are inseparable in many cases, but it is not universally true for all. Many people are enjoying their romantic life that they started with friendship a long back. On the other hand, the diametrically opposite situation may happen to your life also…you can lose your intimate friend in the mire of romance. It is the mystery of psychology that propels human beings to behave like this. But, we should always follow what our mind directs us to do. If you feel to make a romantic relationship with your friend, do not hesitate to march forward until you get him/her.

Just think of the situation – you have a friend, who understands you well, who knows you and would stand beside you in all situations; he/she is certainly the perfect match for your romantic life. The most important thing is that your have to be pragmatic enough to make her/him understand the situation, otherwise everything will be lost in the wave of time.

Romancing close friends can be risky – they may take the relationship as granted at the beginning…and you may have to face a false situation. If you are honest about your aims and objectives, do not hesitate! You know her well right from her earlier days and vice versa…and it is assumed that the relationship that exists between you can never be altered even if the sky comes down to the earth. A true friend can bring success, happiness and all the treasures in life. Honesty will pay for you and if you are honest to bring your relationship to romance, none has the power to stop that.

Most of the people assume lot of things at the beginning of any friendship. They start daydreaming and finish as a loser. It should be kept in mind that mere assuming would not pay you until you have an utmost desire to fulfill your demand. If you are too crazy to make a romantic relationship with your close friend…take time and wait for the perfect time to tell her. You would have to change certain things of you. Your lip service can play a big role to canalize your friendship to romance. Tell expressively and persuasively that you love her from your heart. If she does not want to change the equation of the relationship immediately, do not be worried; keep on persuading her and you would get the result in no time. In such cases faith and honesty work a lot.

It is necessary to bring certain changes within you; otherwise it would be too tough for you to transfer your relationship from friendship to romance. First of all, get a different look – always dress elegantly and spray perfume frequently, so that she can observe some changes in you. Be realistic and create an opportunity for her to come closure to you. Suppose, both of you are in a stroll, what you need to do is that place your palm near her waist and smoothly start rubbing until she gets aroused sexually. Wait for the perfect time – hold her hand and kiss. If she agrees with your gesture, carry on kissing in different places including lip, breast and more. Try to be direct with her and make no hesitation in asking for dating. Say, whatever you have at the earliest, because nobody knows what may happen in the days to come. Still, you need to be practical enough to judge the perfect time and place and of course, of the mental state of your beloved. Be true to your heart and do not fear from rejection. Keep a positive outlook and you can earn your desired soul by applying the tried and tested law.

Once she shows any positive sign of continuing romance, try to make it doubly sure by giving her romantic gifts and sumptuous treats at renowned restaurants. Whenever you get spare time, go to your nearby park or at the riverside. Speak in romantic tone and pick out some happy memories of the past. It will simply create magic for you. Make scope for her to vent out her emotional stories of her life. Sit closer to her and continue rubbing her body, so that she can feel good. Look for the opportunity to stimulate her physically as well as emotionally… if you can do so, you are rest assured of winning half the battle. She is not expected to tell about this incident to anyone; it is because of two separate reasons. Firstly, she would not like to create any gossip amongst her friends and secondly, she would not like to debar her from getting sexual pleasure.

So, be free from hesitation and enjoy the ultimate friendship through making love. Always remember the proverb – “Marriages are made in heaven” and if it is true, you do not need to bother about the consequences. Go and tell your friend!!! She would definitely reciprocate your feelings. It is quite possible that she is also making her mind for you…

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Big No-No’s In Your Relationship with A Woman, Which She Secretly Wish You Knew!

Written by:   Cucan Pemo

There are things that women want men to know but do not tell them. This is going to mean the difference between a good relationship and a bad one. If men could only know about these things that are big no-no’s and knew what women wanted, they would be able to have happier relationships with the woman in their life.

1) Giving Respect is as Important as Getting It

One thing is respect. Women want to have respect. When it comes to respecting women, some men are not so good at it. This may end up resulting in them losing out in the relationship. It is important to show respect to a woman that you are involved with or any woman for that matter. Give them an opportunity to see that you can be a good guy and that you can respect what they believe and let them have their own feelings about things.

Respect is going to be shown through actions. You can do nice things for a woman like opening up the door, giving up your seat or talking to her differently with passion and concern. It is not acceptable to just fake some charm on a first date. You need to be real and up front about how you are going to be in the relationship on a day-to-day basis.

2) Being Kind to the World

Being kind is another secret that most men do not know that women want. Women want their man to be kind to everyone. They want them to nice to everyone that they meet to some degree.

Treating others nicely will mean that they are kind and are going to give the same type of treatment that they deserve and expect from everyone else. Kindness can go a long way to a women’s heart and it should be something that men think about.

3) Having Accountability for Actions

Women want men to have accountability. They wan to make sure that men are going to take the responsibility for the things that they have done. This can mean anything from the smallest problem to bigger life changing events that happen in their life. Women want to make sure that they are with a man that is going to be a stand-up guy and do what they are supposed to do.

4) Loving Family

One no no that women hate is a man that does not love her family. Women want to have a man that is going to love their family and take on the pressures of family life in a good way.

This means their parents, brothers, sisters and children all the same. They need to know that they can rely on their husbands or boyfriends to do what is needed of them. Most women need someone that they can trust and whom they know is going to be there for them when they are most in need.

5) Being Safe and Secure

Women want to also feel safe with their men. They want to know that they have nothing to worry about and that they are in good hands when they are with them. Having the feeling of security is going to mean all the difference when a woman is with their man. They want to be secure not only with their man but they also want to know that their man is going to be there to protect them when they need it the most.

Women need to make sure that their man is taking their relationship seriously. They want to know that their man is going to be there for them no matter what and they want to make sure that they are for real in the partnership.

Try not to joke around all the time and laugh about things in the relationship as this is going to insult some women and make them feel low. Women want their men to be committed and serious about what is going on in the relationship just as they do.

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Bad Men You Should Avoid When Dating

Written by: Nicholl McGuire

Women always say, “I didn’t know he was like that” when their boyfriends perform acts that cause everyone around them shame. In some cases they really weren’t aware of the boyfriend’s mischievous deeds, but in other cases women knew well in advance they just hoped he would stop.

Most women are not stupid, gullible, dumb, or any other name critics choose to call them for the selections in men they make. For some, they truly had no idea their boyfriend meant bad news for them. The ever-popular question of, “Why did she get herself involved with him anyway?” continues to loom over their heads and the reasons vary depending on whom you ask. Some women may have found out about their problem boyfriend and stayed because of love, status, money and/or power. Others may have stayed because they didn’t want to carry the guilt of leaving their children’s father over issues they feel could be resolved. Still many women feel they can change him. As long as women continue to believe that the power of sex, money, counseling, personal sacrifice or a host of other strategies to change a bad man will work, they will continue to subject themselves to mental and physical abuse. These strategies simply will never work for some men. There comes a time when women will have to get off their knees whether she is praying to God or pleading to her mate to change. She will have to stand up carrying her self-respect in hand and walk right through the door of “end the relationship now.”

The following advice is written for women who haven’t yet made a commitment or a baby with a “bad boy.” She may be struggling with whether she is ready to settle down with him, distance herself from him or keep him as a friend. Although the best advice is not to offer to carry him or his burdens and just leave him alone, there will be those women who will still stay. If those women choose to stay, they have committed themselves to a hard life of many restless nights, aches and pains at times mentally and/or physically and they most likely will past negative behaviors to their future children and their children.

The Liar – In the beginning of the relationship, you caught him in a few white lies. He had what seemed like convincing excuses; therefore you let him get away with them. Now the lying has increased and the excuses have become minimal if not at all. Actions you may want to consider are the following: Approach him not only with what you think, but what you know; in other words have proof. Stop taking his lying lightly. Let him know that this behavior you will not accept any longer. If he chooses to continue lying, then tell him you will have to end the relationship for good. Once you have made a decision that you are leaving, begin to make efforts to not be contacted by him (change your cell phone number, block his email address, put places you hang out frequently on hold, and avoid telling mutual friends about your personal whereabouts, thoughts and feelings. You must not leave and then go back to him, he will only get better about lying to you over time.

The Player also known as The Pimp – This man is obsessed with being contacted or making contact with the opposite sex. He will use cell phone, email, your house phone or friends to make contact with whomever he meets. He will leave a trail of evidence whether it is the popular piece of paper that slips out of his pocket with a phone number without a name, restaurant receipts, hotel charges, cologne or jewelry gifts, read and sent email that sits in his account that he forgot to delete. He begins to create a pattern in his actions when you have become old and someone else becomes new. Look out for this repetitious pattern. He may develop his pattern after work on a daily basis working later and later nights at the office then when he comes home he is providing almost too much detail about what happened at work or not at all. Another pattern he may create may be choosing a hobby or interest that is very unusual to his personality and attending this faithfully, what you can do to find out if he is sincere is offer to pick him up from the pottery class on some nights. Watch his reaction. There may also be the weekend pattern of always “needing to get away, have some time to myself, or I’m so busy with errands.” All the while making little or no time for the two of you to go out and be seen together. When you suggest new places to visit, he finds an excuse to take you to the same area you both are familiar to keep from running into the other woman or women. He finds a way, anyway, to travel to places without you regularly using an excuse such as “I’m going to my mother’s house or hanging out with Rick, Joe or someone you never heard of Frank.” Be careful family and friends will cover for him. He will call you, at times when he knows you are out and about to see if you will be in the proximity where he will be entertaining the other woman or women. He is protective of his cell phone and his computer; if you tried to check either it maybe password protected. You may want to consider whether having to worry over your man’s whereabouts is worth all of this aggravation. In time, you will become insecure, angry for no apparent reason, and develop a since of distrust toward everyone you meet. This is baggage you don’t need.

The Thief – He has been around when things go missing. At first you didn’t suspect him and thought items had just been misplaced or he blamed someone else for taking them. Yet, you have always had a funny feeling in your gut that he was the one who made off with your dad’s tools, took your favorite CD, helped himself to some cash sitting around, and other important items. It is time to come up with a plan, set him up. The kind of plan you come up with can’t be easily figured out by him and if you sincerely want your restless conscience to be at peace, then go to great lengths to figure out whether he is trustworthy. Time is money and the longer you stay with him, the more items will go missing.

The Hustler – He is always thinking of a way to separate people from their money illegally. From identity theft to standing on the street corner selling drugs, he always has a knot of money and doesn’t mind living lavishly. Now you may think that what he has told you about his daytime job is paying the bills, but the truth of the matter that job didn’t pay for the designer clothing and expensive jewelry you wear; instead it was the second one you may or may not know about. This man is dangerous. He has enemies and one day some one will catch up with him, you or anyone who associates with either of you, and the sight won’t be pretty. You must ask yourself this question, is he worth putting your life and everyone else’s lives around you in danger?

The Abuser/Controller – You can never do anything right. He is often critical, walks around with an attitude and every opportunity he has alone he wants you to stop living your world to be with him. In the beginning of the relationship, you justified his negative personality with excuse after excuse. Whether he is physically ill, illiterate, disabled or mentally disturbed and on medication, you have a right to explain how you feel about him to him. You may have done this already and got knocked to the ground whether verbally or physically. You may have told yourself that things will get better and he is making an effort to change. Well that is good if he is sincere about becoming a better man; however, he can make those strides without you living with him and subjecting yourself to his name calling, mood swings, choking, punching, and grabbing. There are no rewards in heaven given to women who allow themselves to be abused by men. There was only one Christ in the Holy Bible and you are not He. (Read more about the abuser in an article I wrote entitled, “How To Know Your Boyfriend Is Abusive” at this site.)

The Mooch – You have invited him once again on an outing and he never has any money in his wallet. During inopportune times, he says he needs to stop at the ATM and you know there is none even close to where the two of you are located. When he offers to take you out, he usually picks a place that he doesn’t have to pay much (despite the fact that when it was on your tab he ordered steak and another time lobster!) He drives your car and doesn’t fill it up, when you mention it; he finally puts some gas in the tank — a measly $5 or $10. Holidays come and go with very little if any acknowledgment from him. Yet, you bought him (and possibly his relatives) really nice gifts whether it was a holiday or not. He displays affection, says all the right things, and listens to your concerns only when he knows he needs something from you. If you choose to continue a relationship with this man you have options and they are as follows. You could stop being so generous and treat him how he treats you. For example, when you invite him out, treat him to the kind of places he takes you. Put a limit on how often he drives your car. Avoid helping him when he is in a bind since you know he won’t help you. Make yourself unavailable to run errands for him and anyone associated with him (that includes his children by a previous relationship, his mother, sister or brother.) If he begins to see you are no fool, he won’t continue to run over you and will grow to appreciate you. However, if he doesn’t you will be making it easy for him to walk away from you without you having to break up with him.

The Drunk/ Drug Abuser – How many times have you seen him intoxicated or using drugs? Is he fun, angry, disgusting or depressed afterward? Are most of the relationship problems you have been facing associated with this type of behavior? If so, then you will have to consider whether or not you will help him get counseling from a distance, continue to live with him and endure the abuse, leave him alone altogether or create an intervention for him that includes a professional counselor, family and friends who have all been affected by his negative ways. If he consistently refuses help, then for your own sanity and safety, leave him alone.

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An Easy Way to Find New Love

Written by:  William Martin

Have you ever noticed that it is easier to attract a potential partner if you already have one? Have you noticed that if you are not really looking for a relationship a lot more people show an interest, but if you get desperate they run a mile!

At least that has happened to me sometimes and from asking around it seems to be quite common. Rather than just putting this down to some bizarre quirk of human nature lets look at the cause of this behavior and see if we can make it work for us.

One of the keys to finding a mate is to not particularly need one, or at least not need one ‘too much’. I find that if I need a partner too much that can drive them away. However, what do I do if I really feel desperate?

Another quirk of human nature is that our nervous system has a hard time telling the difference between an imagined experience and a real one. You only have to watch an exciting or scary movie to see how easily we can fool ourselves. This is the key to never being desperate about finding a partner. If we want to find a partner, then the best thing to do is imagine we have one already!

If we imagine we have the perfect partner and get into feeling how it would be to have that right now, this calms down our whole nervous system. It gives us a feeling of being fulfilled and takes away feelings of desperation. Especially if we really get into details; what you will do together, where you will go, what will you say, what will they say, and so on.

Please bear in mind that I am not talking about ‘yearning’ for someone. Sitting around yearning for someone is very different from imagining you already have them. Yearning is a feeling of ‘not having’, which primes us to feel desperate. We need to discourage ourselves from cultivating feelings of ‘not having’ and encourage ourselves to cultivate feelings of ‘having’. You can easily tell the difference as the feeling of ‘having’ is a much better feeling!

You may say that this is just a trick of the mind. Well, the feelings that come as part of the package of ‘lonely yearning’ are tricks of the mind too. Feelings of failure, or feeling that we will never find anyone, are all part of the imagination – they are negative imaginings. That is using our mind and our imagination against ourselves and training ourselves to fail.

If this all sounds strange to you, remember what top athletes do if they want to improve their abilities. They imagine themselves achieving a better time in the race, lifting heavier weights, having more stamina, and the like. They imagine how they will feel to achieve their goals. Athletes don’t mess around with techniques that don’t work, especially when a few hundredths of a second difference means winning or losing. Successful business people do this sort of thing too. They imagine success and then move ahead from there.

By imagining we already have the perfect partner, and how it will feel, we train our subconscious mind to start making that happen. And, because we are more likely to be mellow about it, we are much more likely to make the most of it when the next opportunity comes along. If you are going to try this, and you are willing to spend a few minutes on it every day, get yourself a nice big stick ready… you might need it to keep all the interest potential partners at bay…

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8 Easy Ways To Find and Attract Your Soulmate!

Written by:  Cucan Pemo

Is there any such thing as a soul mate? Yes, there are soul mates for everyone in the world. You will find that you may find your soul mate in the least likely place or in the least likely person, but you will find someone who can love you and care for you when you need them. A soul mate is a person who you love and loves you back for no reason at all. A soul mate is deeper than lust.

You don’t lust for the person, though you may every now and then, but you are just as happy sitting with them watching TV as you are in the bedroom. You will find that your soul mate is like no other boyfriend. When you find a soul mate, you will feel something that you have never felt before.

Is there more than one soul mate out there? When it comes to answering your feelings, you will find that most people are 50/50 on this one. You may find that you love more than one man deeply in your life. There are more than a billion people in the world and your chances of having more than one soul mate is possible, however, most people believe in the one and only.

The one and only soul mate that you will ever have, but you will find that there are going to be many men in your life that make you feel so much. A soul mate is deeper than lust; it’s deeper than love. When you find a soul mate, you just know that they are going to be different.

1) To find your soul mate you have to be open to the world. There are messages and signs all around us; you just have to know how to read them. There are signs all around you that will lead you to your soul mate. When you begin to find the signs, you will find your soul mate. The universe is constantly moving you towards your own utopia. It is trying to move you towards your soul mate, your destiny, and your happiness.

2) You will know when you meet your soul mate; you will feel something that you have never felt. It’s like having love at first sight, but it feels deeper. You feel so much, in your heart, for a person before you even get to know a person. You will just know when you have met your soul mate.

Everything that you need to know lies in their eyes. If you can look into their eyes and see yourself, you have just met the man that will forever affect your life.

A soul mate may not last forever, however, it will last long enough for you to get what you need out of them. They may be there to comfort you and to care for you when others desert you. They may be there to encourage you to reach for your dreams. They promise to give you the world and then the follow through with their words. They are they for you when you truly need them.

A soul mate simply means that you never have to say I love you, because they, as well as you, already know. It’s never having to say you’re sorry, because you know they are. It is knowing what they feel without having to say a word.

1) To attract your soul mate you have to open your heart to the world. You have to take the time to sit in a park and watch the world pass you by. When you do this, you are able to feel all that the world feels.

2) Notice the signs. When you walk to work, look up to the buildings, look at everything around you. Don’t walk with your head looking straight ahead, you are blocking out the universe. Take in the world by acknowledging the world.

3) Be open to everything, you may meet your soul mate online or on a subway or on a blind date. You never know where you may meet them, so be open to every experience.

Be kind to others. Today, it is sometimes not safe to extend and open hand to others, but you can smile to everyone who passes you by on the street. You may want to pull out a dollar for the local charity or homeless person that you meet. You can be kind to the universe, by being kind to those who pass you by.

4) Do something for someone who you don’t even know. This will not only make you feel good, but it will also make someone else become open to the world. Open the phone book and pick a random name. Send them a dollar in the mail. It will make you and the other person happy and appreciative to the world.

5) Be patient. You don’t want to rush fate, or you’ll get cheated. You don’t want to rush into a relationship to be in a relationship, you need to wait and find someone who is your soul mate. It may happen at 15, 25, or maybe even 45. No one knows when you’ll meet your one, however, if you open yourself up to the world, then you will be able to find the love of your life much quicker.

6) Listen to your heart. You may find yourself in a relationship, but you aren’t truly feeling them. You will want to follow your heart. Your heart is an internal guide that will allow you to find the path to your soul mate.

7) Give everyone a chance. You may know someone and not even realize that they are your soul mate. The most unusual places; the ones that you would never think about will actually be your soul mate. Go against your normal status of acceptable dates and take a chance. It may turn into something much more than just conversation; they may be your soul mate.

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