Comments on: Unconscious Communication

By: Back to Basics : MissMatchMaker

Back to Basics : MissMatchMaker — Thu, 23 Jul 2009 00:45:48 +0000

[...] voice. Watch body language and be sure the person is open to the discussion at hand. A person’s unconscious communication can be very [...]

By: Doc

Doc — Fri, 31 Oct 2008 16:20:59 +0000

So much to learn ~ great advice! Doc’s last blog post..Amen to the Obesity Tax, Let’s Just Call it Something Else

By: Miss MatchMaker

Miss MatchMaker — Thu, 30 Oct 2008 07:17:11 +0000

Girl you are going to be just fine under my wing!

xoxo~

By: Kara

Kara — Thu, 30 Oct 2008 03:58:26 +0000

I know I’ve got alot to work on. I just get so shy when a guy walks over to me. But I will try what you said! Thank you!

By: Miss MatchMaker

Miss MatchMaker — Thu, 23 Oct 2008 14:52:50 +0000

Justin, thanks for stopping by! Sorry I haven’t had much time to interact on my old forum but you know how it is…

xoxo~

By: Justin

Justin — Thu, 23 Oct 2008 14:40:11 +0000

Interesting read Miss MatchMaker – I’m intrigued by the mirroring behaviour.

By: Miss MatchMaker

Miss MatchMaker — Thu, 23 Oct 2008 13:48:51 +0000

Thanks Destin Girl. I look forward to seeing you around! I think that most people are subconsciously aware of body language but when you take the time to learn it then it can make a world of difference on your total communication skills.

xoxo~

By: Destin Girl

Destin Girl — Wed, 22 Oct 2008 05:12:55 +0000

I never really took the time to study body language until recently and I am so glad I did! It helps me with dating and in my career on a daily basis. I think it has made me more confident because when you can get a good handle on a persons body language then you can tell where to go next or to not waste your time. Great advise Miss Matchmaker I will be sure to subscribe!

By: Miss MatchMaker

Miss MatchMaker — Tue, 21 Oct 2008 13:56:11 +0000

Hey Trish, thanks for stopping by! When we were in college I think we were very much unaware of the specifics but instinctively knew exactly what we were doing! I think back then we were so invincible it just didn’t matter and we knew what worked LOL but you are right…it does take a bit more now-a-days!

xoxo~

By: Trish

Trish — Tue, 21 Oct 2008 13:14:58 +0000

Hey it’s me again; just wanted to see if my gravatar popped up.

By: Trish

Trish — Tue, 21 Oct 2008 12:40:11 +0000

I was an expert at a young age to “reel them in” using my spanish eyes.
It worked!
As an adult, single, in her mid-thirtys, I feel silly and more shy in social situations trying to attract a man across the room with my eyes. It does take more conversations, and as you said “true body language and pose: ” to communicate the fact that I may or may not be interested….
Body language is more important than ever in todays world. A friend of mine recently attended my 3rd grader’s birthday party. She did not say a word to anyone, and walked around with her arms crossed. Was she angry? Depressed? acting snobby? I am leaving it be, for personal reasons, but sometimes body language can be hard to read!
My Boyfriend of 8 months seems to have GREAT body language and listening skills, but when he opens his mouth it’s nothing but bitching and complaining.
Hey, isn’t that the woman’s Job?
Thanks for the great blog. It’s been something I’ve been thinking of myself!

By: Miss MatchMaker

Miss MatchMaker — Mon, 20 Oct 2008 20:43:40 +0000

Carla that is not true! You need to have more of a positive attitude. Think of it as a challenge and when you are ready you will obtain your goal!!

xoxo~

By: Carla

Carla — Mon, 20 Oct 2008 20:10:45 +0000

I’m gonna be single forever, ugh. Thanks Match

By: Miss MatchMaker

Miss MatchMaker — Mon, 20 Oct 2008 15:34:48 +0000

Any time Bobby! It can be confusing at times but it is worth knowing the basics.

xoxo~

By: bobby

bobby — Mon, 20 Oct 2008 14:49:25 +0000

I saw a youtube video the other day that went into all kinds of detail about body language. After 10 minutes of watching, I felt I would need an associates degree just to understand lol

Thanks for the tips