The choices we make and why I am single…

People come into my dating service everyday and have all of their excuses lined up as to why they are single:  too busy, not meeting the right people, they don’t get out much, this town is too small… bla bla bla…well I am here to tell you STOP making excuses!

We are single because we CHOOSE to be single!  The moment we make a conscious decision that we don’t want to be single and we recognize that it is time to make a change in our life we are suddenly free to Read more

Help or Hinder…

Consider this before you go on your next date:  Sometimes it’s not about who you have been in the past or even who you are today but more about who you want to become…

In this complicated world of dating and relationships I believe there are two very clear, black and white types of relationships.  I choose to define them in a very simple way at this point in my life…or maybe it’s just the cold medicine kicking in…LOL!

There are those people out there that help you.  People who are supportive in your decisions and life choices and inspire you to best Read more

Keeping the newness…

Who doesn’t enjoy the first few weeks of dating someone new?  The pursuit in going strong!  The attraction is at it’s highest point!  And he is pulling out his best A-game…the sweet and sometimes racy text messages 4 or 5 times a day, the romantic evenings when he actually listens to what you have to say, the way he mentally undresses you in public, the spark that runs up your spine every time his hands hold yours, the fact that he makes the time in his schedule to meet you in the Target parking lot for 5 minutes just to steal a kiss in the middle of the day! Read more

She can’t afford to treat…

One of my best friends called me up with a very important question last night.  She has recently graduated college and is not in the best financial situation yet.  She has been dating a new boyfriend for about a month now and fortunately he has been paying for just about everything.  Even though she knows she can’t afford it, she wanted to treat one night but hasn’t yet.  She asked me at what point does she have to open her purse even though it is empty? Read more